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Dating Patterns

Research

Why am I jealous?Usually because something you value feels threatened: the bond itself, your sense of being enough, or both at once. Researchers find that jealousy shows up as early as infancy, rises with threats to self-esteem, and runs higher in people with anxious attachment. They also separate the feeling, which is common, from suspicion, which is a different thing.4 sources · Updated October 2, 2026