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Alexandra H. Solomon

Relational self awareness, dating and building lasting relationships, drawn from her couples work and her Northwestern course.

Licensed clinical psychologist; adjunct professor, School of Education and Social Policy, Northwestern University · credential source

On: datingpatterns.com, datinginyour20s.com, datinginyour30s.com, singleinyour20s.com

Profiles last checked October 1, 2026

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Bella DePaulo

Research and writing on single life, including people who choose to stay single and live full lives on their own terms.

Social psychologist (PhD, Harvard); academic affiliate, Department of Psychological and Brain Sciences, UC Santa Barbara · credential source

On: datingpatterns.com, singleinyour20s.com, singleinyour30.com, singleinyour40s.com, singleinyour50s.com, singleinyour60s.com

Profiles last checked October 1, 2026

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Eli J. Finkel

Research on how modern marriage and long term relationships work, and what partners expect from each other.

Professor of Psychology and of Management and Organizations, Northwestern University; director of the Relationships and Motivation Lab · credential source

On: datingpatterns.com, datinginyour30s.com, datinginyour40s.com, datingagainafterdivorce.com

Profiles last checked October 1, 2026

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Julie Menanno

How couples get stuck in conflict cycles and how to feel secure with a partner.

Licensed marriage and family therapist (MA, LMFT, LCPC); author of Secure Love · credential source

On: datingpatterns.com, datinginyour30s.com, datinginyour40s.com, datingagainafterdivorce.com

Profiles last checked October 1, 2026

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Justin J. Lehmiller

Research on sex, desire, casual relationships and friends with benefits.

Social psychologist (PhD, Purdue); Senior Research Fellow, The Kinsey Institute, Indiana University · credential source

On: datingpatterns.com, datinginyour20s.com, datinginyour30s.com, datinginyour40s.com

Profiles last checked October 1, 2026

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Lori Gottlieb

What happens in the therapy room, including breakups, dating choices and the stories people tell about love.

Psychotherapist; author of Maybe You Should Talk to Someone and The Atlantic's Dear Therapist column · credential source

On: datingpatterns.com, datinginyour30s.com, datinginyour40s.com, singleinyour30.com, singleinyour40s.com, datingagainafterdivorce.com

Profiles last checked October 1, 2026

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Marisa G. Franco

Friendship, loneliness and belonging, and how adults make and keep close friends.

Licensed counseling psychologist; PhD in Counseling Psychology, University of Maryland, where she teaches · credential source

On: datingpatterns.com, singleinyour20s.com, singleinyour30.com, singleinyour40s.com, singleinyour50s.com, singleinyour60s.com

Profiles last checked October 1, 2026

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Nedra Glover Tawwab

Boundaries in relationships, family and friendship, and how to say what you need.

Licensed therapist; founder of Kaleidoscope Counseling · credential source

On: datingpatterns.com, datinginyour20s.com, datinginyour30s.com, singleinyour20s.com, singleinyour30.com

Profiles last checked October 1, 2026

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Pepper Schwartz

Research and writing on love, sex and relationships, including dating and partnership later in life.

Sociologist (PhD, Yale); Professor Emerita of Sociology, University of Washington · credential source

On: datingpatterns.com, singleinyour50s.com, singleinyour60s.com, datinginyour40s.com, singleinyour40s.com, datingagainafterdivorce.com

Profiles last checked October 1, 2026

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Ramani Durvasula

Narcissistic and high conflict relationships, and recovering after leaving one.

Licensed clinical psychologist; Professor Emerita of Psychology, California State University, Los Angeles · credential source

On: datingpatterns.com, datinginyour20s.com, datinginyour30s.com, datinginyour40s.com, datingagainafterdivorce.com

Profiles last checked October 1, 2026

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Blaine Anderson

Dating coach for men who talks about dating app profiles, first dates, and how women experience modern dating.

On: datingpatterns.com, datinginyour20s.com, datinginyour30s.com, singleinyour20s.com

Profiles last checked October 1, 2026

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Esther Perel

Desire, infidelity and the tensions inside long term relationships, often through real couples sessions on her podcast.

On: datingpatterns.com, datinginyour30s.com, datinginyour40s.com, singleinyour50s.com, datingagainafterdivorce.com

Profiles last checked October 1, 2026

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Kate Anthony

Coaching and podcast conversations for women deciding whether to stay in or leave a marriage, and rebuilding life after divorce.

On: datingpatterns.com, datingagainafterdivorce.com, datinginyour40s.com, singleinyour40s.com, singleinyour50s.com

Profiles last checked October 1, 2026

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Mark Groves

Relationship educator and podcast host who talks about codependent patterns, honesty, and building healthier connections.

On: datingpatterns.com, datinginyour30s.com, datinginyour40s.com, singleinyour30.com, singleinyour40s.com

Profiles last checked October 1, 2026

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Matthew Hussey

Dating and love life advice on raising your standards, confidence, and finding a partner, through his podcast, books and videos.

On: datingpatterns.com, datinginyour20s.com, datinginyour30s.com, datinginyour40s.com, singleinyour30.com, singleinyour40s.com

Profiles last checked October 1, 2026

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Paul C. Brunson

Matchmaker, TV host and author who talks about finding and keeping love, modern dating trends, and relationships at every stage of life.

On: datingpatterns.com, datinginyour30s.com, datinginyour40s.com, singleinyour40s.com, singleinyour50s.com, datingagainafterdivorce.com

Profiles last checked October 1, 2026

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Sabrina Zohar

Dating and relationship coach and podcast host who talks about anxious attachment, self-worth, and breaking repeating relationship patterns.

On: datingpatterns.com, datinginyour20s.com, datinginyour30s.com, singleinyour20s.com, singleinyour30.com

Profiles last checked October 1, 2026

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Shan Boodram

Intimacy educator, author and podcast host who talks about dating, sex, desire, and building close relationships.

On: datingpatterns.com, datinginyour20s.com, datinginyour30s.com, singleinyour20s.com

Profiles last checked October 1, 2026

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