Texting
- Why did they stop texting after things were going well?Usually because their interest, energy or circumstances shifted and they chose the exit that skips an awkward conversation. Research on ghosting points to low commitment and conflict avoidance far more often than to anything you did in a single message.
- Why do I reread their texts so many times?Because a text strips out tone, and an uncertain mind hates a blank. Rereading feels like it will find the answer, but research on uncertainty, rumination and reassurance seeking suggests the loop mostly feeds the worry it is trying to settle.